This Is the Intimacy Building Sex Bucket List You Need in Your Life
Everyone needs to have a sex bucket list. Not only can it boost your libido and improve your sex life, but it helps get your creative (and other *wink wink*) juices flowing in terms of deciding on sex acts to try. The best part? While it can be incredibly fun to do with a long-term partner, these can also be exciting in a short-term relationship or even with a one-night stand. When it comes to the long-term partner aspects, while there are tons of health benefits to sex, having a sexual bucket list opens up the opportunity to talk about sex with your partner and enjoy more than just maintenance sex.
As you sit down to think about what your personal sex bucket list will entail and what the best sexual things to try are, why not start by borrowing some ideas from our list below?
Get it on in a public place
Having sex in public is a sexy bucket list item that so many folks want to try... and who can blame them?
Shop for a couple’s sex toy together
With so many sex toys for couples out there, why wouldn't you want to use one to improve your sex life?
Give anal a whirl
Did you know that anal sex can be an incredibly fun way to explore new erotic pleasure points, like the A-spot and P-spot?
Receive (or give) a rim job
If you're not into penetration, acts of anal play, like analingus, can certainly do the trick.
Try a role-play scenario
Role-playing as different people can be super sensual, and there is no shortage of role-play scenarios to test out.
Consider the experience of male escorts
For those curious about new experiences, looking into male escorts to add to your bucket list could offer a unique perspective on pleasure. It helps ensure that any encounter is consensual, safe, and aligned with your boundaries.
Use a weed-based lube
While there are tons of fantastic lubes to try out, a weed-based lube can take your pleasure to the next level.
Take sexy nudes
Add to your sexual bucket list and exhibitionist flair by taking nudes of your partner.
Watch each other masturbate
Masturbation is good for you, so why not masturbate in front of your partner and watch one another get off?
Have phone sex
Pick up the phone and let your sex partner hear the sensuality dripping from your voice. It's way better than a sext.
Buy a piece of sex furniture
With an incredible piece of sex furniture (we swear by Liberator), there will be an infinite number of new sex acts to try out.
Master the art of talking dirty
When you learn how to talk dirty, it's effortless to entice someone into your bedroom.
Give a striptease
Not only are stripteases amazing for the person on the receiving end, but they're fun to give (and a great confidence boost).
Play a sex game
Playing any sex game for couples is a sure way to get you in the mood. We promise.
Eat sensual food off your bodies
While it can make for messy sex, food play is underrated by many. Chocolate, whipped cream... you name it.
Watch (ethical) porn together
Not only can watching ethical porn get you in the mood for sex, it's also a great way to explore new ideas to try out together.
Experiment with sensory deprivation
We love sensation play — especially when your vision is obscured, and you turn yourself over entirely to a trusted partner.
Have sex in the backseat of a car
Have sex in a car for the added element of exhibitionism while exploring sex in a new location.
Join the Mile High Club
Sure, sex while travelling abroad, but it can also be exhilarating to do it on the plane trip there!
Have a threesome
Having a threesome tops many people's lists, and with good reason. Three is often better than just two.
Go to a sex club
At a sex club, folks can enjoy the pleasures of voyeurism in a consensual, safe environment.
Give swinging a try
Folks who enjoy elements of an open relationship can try out swinging or even attend a play party together.
So, is your sex bucket list ready to go now?
Remember that these are all things that can be enjoyed in long- and short-term relationships, as well as with a casual hookup. What matters at the end of this list is that the sex acts to try are all ones that you are comfortable with. Not to mention feeling more confident that this list of sexual things to try will drastically improve your sex life.
Which of these sexual bucket list items are top on your list? What are your recommendations for sexual things to try to improve your sex life? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below.
