*The Clone-A-Pussy Kit. Photo courtesy of Clone-A-Willy.*

Sure, sex toys are fun for solo play — whether you have a vagina or penis — but did you know that they can also be an ideal addition to couple’s play? Personally, we love bringing exciting toys into the bedroom (or wherever we choose to have sex, in the moment) to enhance everyone’s pleasure, increase the chances of reaching orgasm, and to better learn and explore one another’s bodies in a way that is both sensual and fun.

Whether as a Valentine’s Day Gift for your partner or just as a gift to yourself to make sex more fun, here’s the roundup of our favourite couple’s sex toys that you’re sure to obsess over as much as we do! Products are listed in alphabetical order by company name.

Banana Pants’ Bumpher

Retails at $40 USD (about $50 CAD)

*Bumpher. Photo courtesy of Banana Pants.*

Created by Banana Pants — the masterminds behind various dildo base stimulation cushions — bumpher will make your strap-on game or couple's play infinitely more orgasmic. Your bumpher will fit perfectly onto most dildo bases up to 3.25 inches (8.25 centimetres), with the sticky bottom side helping it stay firmly in place. It's also compatible with open o-ring and underwear harnesses!

The double-bump texture on its surface is made from semi-firm body-safe silicone (phthalate-free and hypoallergenic, too), which feels flesh-like to the touch. As they say themselves, it's "soft where you need it, firm where you want it!"

Used with a strap-on, the wearer can experience the pleasure of their bumpher while stimulating their partner with the dildo itself. We even recommend using it without a strap-on — with a dildo inserted into one person, the other can enjoy an orgasm by grinding against it in a scissoring position. Additional ideas for couple's play includes taking turns rubbing it against both your and your partner's vulvas, supple and textured side against the skin (perfect during foreplay or even just a heavy make-out session for added pleasure). It's a win-win for everyone involved!

Remember, like any silicone toy, it's best to use a water-based lubricant with it, to keep the material from breaking down and allowing you to enjoy your bumpher for the long-haul. It can easily be cleaned before and after use with soap and warm water. It's also safe to boil for up to three minutes if you feel so inclined.

Banana Pants’ Shagger

Retails at $35.99 USD (about $45 CAD)

*Shagger. Photo courtesy of Banana Pants.*

Available in the colours azure and black, Shagger is Banana Pants' newest dildo base stimulation cover! The Shagger will take your strap-on game or couple's play to the next level, thanks to its unique contour and soft, succulent tips that bend and flow with your body's movements. Your new toy will stretch to fit perfectly onto most dildo bases, up to 3.25 inches (8.25 centimetres). It's also compatible with open o-ring and underwear harnesses!

The entire product is made from body-safe silicone (phthalate-free and hypoallergenic, too), which feels incredible to the touch. Because of this, like any silicone toy, it's best to use a water-based lubricant with your Shagger, to keep the material from breaking down and allowing you to enjoy it for the long-haul. It can easily be cleaned before and after use with soap and warm water or by boiling for up to three minutes if you prefer.

With the textured side fostering connection and, of course, sensation and stimulation, it's no wonder why folx love to use it both with their partner and on their own. What's more, it doesn't just have to be used on the base of a dildo; by holding the Shagger in your hand, you can stimulate yourself or someone else with the silicone tips by rubbing it against the genitals. When experimenting with different motions and speeds, you'll find an orgasmic combination that works for everyone. Once you do, it's a toy you'll be pulling from your collection to use time and time again.

Clone-A-Willy’s Clone-A-Willy and Clone-A-Pussy

Retails at $49.95 USD (about $65 CAD) and $34.95 USD (about $45 CAD)

*The Clone-A-Willy Kit. Photo courtesy of Clone-A-Willy.*

Clone-A-Willy's Clone-A-Willy and Clone-A-Pussy silicone clone kits are the best way to 'have sex' with your partner when they aren't physically there with you. You can quite literally immortalize your favourite person's genitals in silicone, after they have completed the moulding process for you. Your partner simply has to place their penis or vulva into the moulding container once it has been filled with the mixed algae-based moulding powder, wait the designated time, then fill the empty mould with coloured, 100% platinum-cure, body-safe silicone. For the penis clones, a vibrator can be added at the same time as the silicone mixture).

Clone-A-Willy is fully functional — complete with a vibrator! — but the Clone-A-Pussy is just a replica of the vulva and outer portion of a vagina. However, the Clone-A-Pussy Plus+ Silicone Casting Kit works as a pocket pussy (AKA a fleshlight), as it comes with a case and pleasure sleeve to create a fully fuckable sex toy.

All of the silicone moulds are available in a large selection of colours, from varying skin tones, to glow-in-the-dark, to some fun and vibrant shades. Whatever you're aiming for, they've got you covered.

If you're worried about the moulding process, or have any questions or concerns about how it'll go down once you receive the product, Clone-A-Willy has a handful of comprehensive step-by-step guides. They're complete with video demonstrations using fruits and veggies to explain the process to you!

You can save 20% on your purchase in the Clone-A-Willy Shop when you use the code BETWEENOURTHIGHS at checkout!

Désirables’ Dalia

Retails at about $110 USD ($150 CAD)

Nominated for the XBIZ Awards’ Luxury Toy of the Year, the Canadian-designed Dalia has so much to offer its users. Unlike other toys for vaginal insertion, Montréal-based Désirables has created a G-spot dildo that helps bring you to orgasm without the assistance of vibrations. The curvature of the 178-millimetre (7-inch) toy, including its bulbous ends, enable it to do just that. Its ergonomic grip and lightweight makes it easy to grip and maneuver both by your own hands and your partner’s.

What’s more, the Dalia is handcrafted by local potters in a Limoges style (Limoges being hard-paste porcelain that began production in French factories in the late eighteenth century), ensuring that the products produced are of the highest quality. Made from porcelain, it also means that this dildo is phthalate-free. The material also allows you to experiment with varying temperatures, either by heating it up in your hands or under warm water, or cooling it down under cold water or placing it for a bit in the refrigerator. Even a slight temperature difference can make for some unexpected change in sensations during couple’s play!

If you’re looking for more than just a sleek white design, they also offer limited-edition versions of the toy. Right now, you can find the blue polka-dotted Dalia Love Dust, the black watercolour designed Dalia x Miss Bourguignon (the flowers represent Femininity, the Xs represent the Connexion, the circles represents the Spirit, Body, and Mind, and the magic sigil represents “In Charge of my Pleasure”), and the self-explanatory Dalia Marble.

Bonus: They have an included 5-year warranty — called an “Oops Policy”! If you unintentionally break your Dalia, snap a picture, send it into Désirables, and they’ll replace it for you!

You can save 10% on your entire first order from Désirables when you use the code BETWEEN10 at checkout!

Hot Octopuss’ DiGiT

Retails at about $69 USD (about $90 CAD)

The perfect finger vibe for both penises and vulvas, the lightweight DiGiT is the ideal toy to take up your sexual fun during couple's play. Foreplay might just become your favourite sexual act; the large, rumbling motor creates powerful sensations against the skin, particularly against erogenous zones like the clitoris, frenulum, perineum, and nipples. We love how this wearable finger vibe fits perfectly to the curves of a person's finger, similar to a custom piece of jewellery. Instantly, DiGiT becomes an extension of your body, helping you target both your own and your partner's sweet spots with pinpointed or in sensual, sweeping motions.

When you wear it yourself, you can have your partner watch on as you bring yourself to orgasm — or edge yourself to the brink of climax — or observe your partner's orgasmic reactions when you play with them. During penetrative vaginal sex, DiGiT is great for simultaneously stimulating the clitoris (when worn by either partner), creating a fuller orgasm for the vulva owner. The toy is 100% waterproof, making it perfect for enjoying in the shower, bath, or hot tub, even when you're alone!

That said, when you're not engaging in sexual play with your partner, either of you can enjoy wearing your DiGiT alone for solo masturbation. It truly is an investment, as either partner can use it, together or apart. Just remember: when using lube, opt for a water-based lubricant, as the toy is made from 100% body-safe silicone.

Je Joue’s Mio Vibrating Cock Ring

Retails at $109 USD (about $140 CAD)

*Mio Vibrating Cock Ring. Photo courtesy of Je Joue.*

Small but mighty, Je Joue's Mio packs an orgasmic punch. This 100% vegan toy is made from smooth, body-safe silicone. Low frequency rumbling vibrations in five speeds and seven patterns create a heightening sense of pleasure for the penis-owning wearer and their partner's genitals (particularly those with a clitoris). It's designed specifically for couples to extend an erection before ejaculation and help vulva-owners reach climax more quickly.

You can start by stretching Mio to slide down to the shaft base, shifting the vibrating bulbous side either upwards to stimulate the vulva or towards the testicles to stimulate the balls. Either way, it makes sex so incredible. More advanced couples can opt to stretch Mio over both the flaccid (soft) penis and testicles; this offers up an even stronger erection and stimulates the entirety of the genitals. When you position the vibrating part of Mio upwards, your partner can be stimulated simultaneously.

This Je Joue design is completely waterproof, making it perfect not just to use in bed, but also the bathtub, the shower, or the hot tub. For adventurous readers, you can take it into the pool, the lake, the ocean — you name it! There are no worries about water damaging your Mio. Just remember to use a water-based lubricant with it, as it's made of silicone, and you wouldn't want to damage the material.

When finished using Mio, pop it onto its magnetic USB charger, so it's ready to go next time that you are.

Let's close the orgasm gap with Je Joue's Mio!

Odile’s Butt Plug Dilator

Retails at $140 USD (about $185 CAD)

*Butt Plug Dilator. Photo courtesy of Odile.*

Unlike other anal dilators (like three-step anal training kits or an inflatable device), Odile’s butt plug dilator allows you to have complete control over the process millimetre by millimetre. That is, you start at just 1 inch (2.55 centimetres) and can gradually increase the girth to 1.5 inches (3.81 centimetres) by turning the black key at the end of the device up to ten times to reach maximum thickness. This adjustment of the girth is both comfortable and safe and can be done either independently or with your partner. We love how it makes anal sex so much less daunting and so much more comfortable!

Because it’s not inflatable, you don’t run the risk of anything popping inside of your body — which can be incredibly dangerous — nor tearing the anus due to what is a typical 25% increase in girth size when using the three-step trainers. And who doesn’t want body-shaking orgasms in the safest way possible?

The broad base stops you from over inserting beyond the 3.6-inch (9.14-centimetre) shaft, yet the smooth and straight surface allows for moving the toy in and out of the butt in a penetrative motion. Plus, thanks to it not requiring any batteries, it’s completely discreet and will make no noise when using it while other people may be in a room nearby.

Once finished, the Odile’s medical-grade silicone makes it incredibly easy to clean after use, and completely safe for the user.

For anyone reading this who has a butt of their own: this toy is worth the investment.

For more information, check their website.

OhnutCo's Ohnut Set of 4

Retails at $65 USD (about $80 CAD)

*Ohnut Set of 4. Photo courtesy of OhnutCo.*

Do you dread painful penetration? Then Ohnut is for you.

Made of soft and stretchy body-safe polymer (that's also BPA-, phthalate-, and latex-free), Ohnut consists of four stackable rings that can fit together or come apart as needed, to make adjustments. The penetrating partner (it can be worn over a penis or sex toy) stretches the Ohnuts externally over the shaft and down to the base, where it acts as a soft, cushioning buffer between the partners' bodies. By adding or removing rings, users can customize the depth of penetration (either vaginally or anally) to discover a combination that feels ideal for you both.

Folks with penises typically don't notice much of a difference in sensation, as Ohnut is designed to feel just like skin! That means it feels just like full penetration and is perfect for easing into penetrative sex during foreplay. By removing the element of unwanted discomfort and pain from penetrative sex, partners can feel more confident, and the wearer can remove worry about putting their partner through unnecessary pain. This leads to the freedom to let go with one another, be totally in the moment, and have full sexual enjoyment.

Note: The Standard Ohnut set will fit folks who wear "standard" or "regular" condoms, including Lifestyles Snugger Fit, Slim Fit, or similar. They stretch to 8 inches (20.3 centimetres) and stack 2.75 inches (7 centimetres).

Need to fit a girthier shaft? Ohnut offers a wider set of four that stretches to 12 inches (about 30.5 centimetres) and stacks 2.75 inches (7 centimetres). This size set is made for folks who typically use Trojan Magnum, Durex XXL, or similar condoms. This also comes with a travel pouch and creative conversation starters.

To receive $7 off your Ohnut purchase, use the code BETWEENOURTHIGHS at checkout!

The Rabbit Company’s Lay-On Couples Playtime Set

Retails at $130 USD (about $165 CAD)

*The Lay-On Couples Playtime Set™, Photo courtesy of The Rabbit Company*

This multi-piece set includes the clitoral Lay-On Rabbit, a satin tie, a beaded flogger, and pair of sex dice. What does this mean? It couldn't be better suited for couples' play.

Let's jump straight into how we found it worked wonders. The sex dice are incredible for foreplay, creating random combinations of sensual acts partners can perform on one another to build up the arousal in the room. A little tip? Play with edging during this game, bringing your sex partner to the brink of orgasm before letting them simmer back down. Sexual tension can be so incredibly hot!

When (or if) you feel comfortable, one of you can have your eyes blindfolded with the satin tie, heightening all of your other senses in preparation for the acts to follow. You can also use the tie to fasten your wrists, giving one partner full control over the other's pleasure. Either way, this is the perfect opportunity for the beaded flogger to come out to play. Trail the strung beads along your partner's body gently, or lightly flog them to experience a slight sting. If both of you feel confident in moving forward consensually, more force can be used behind each flogging, differering the sensations felt by the blindfolded or tied up partner. Remember: always have a safe word in place, just in case!

Finally, the clitoral Lay-On Rabbit can be used. Made of high-quality body-safe seamless silicone material, this whisper-quiet toy's ergonomic shape and one-touch control make it super easy to use and enjoy in the heat of the moment. It features two powerful independent vibrating motors in the shaft and clit-stimulating rabbit ears, allowing users to switch between six massage patterns and six functions in the head and shaft for external stimulation.

Shot’s Beginners Bondage Kit

Retails at about $70 USD ($89.99 CAD) on LoveShop.ca

For couples looking for an amazing introduction to the world of bondage, Shot's Beginners Bondage Kit is a perfect choice. Each kit comes with cuffs that can be used on the wrists or ankles, a blindfold, soft whip, feather tickler, and breathable ball gag. While every item brings something new to the table, they're all worth experimenting with — especially in combination — to make your sexual fantasies a reality.

The cuffs are perfect for consensually restraining a partner while you engage in foreplay or penetrative sex with them. With so many restraining possibilities, you can get as creative or as simple as you want with these. Incorporate the blindfold to remove their sense of sight, thus enhancing their other senses (which can feel absolutely incredible during sex).

Meanwhile, the soft whip is perfect for teasing your partner when they misbehave or bringing them into sexual submission. You might opt to tease or tickle your partner with the feather tickler for a gentler but no less sensual approach. These sensations would only be heightened when combined with the blindfold.

Add in the included breathable ball gag to complete the ultimate submission; fasten it around your partner's head with the ball positioned firmly in their mouth while they release all inhibitions into their dominant partner's hands, tongue, genitals, and sex toys...

This gag is excellent for long, drawn-out play sessions and will help bring both sexual partners' fantasies to life. Who wouldn't want to take advantage of all the tools necessary to accomplish that?

Want to save 15% on your purchase of Shot’s Beginners Bondage Kit (or on any purchase made at LoveShop.ca, for that matter)? Use the code BETWEENOURTHIGHS at checkout!

Wet For Her’s RockHer™ Mini Scissoring Vibrator

Retails at $79.95 USD ($101.73 CAD)

RockHer™ Mini Scissoring Vibrator. Photo courtesy of Wet For Her.

The RockHer™ Mini Scissoring Vibrator was designed for use between couples with vulvas. Made of 100% medical-grade silicone, this splash-proof toy packs a powerful punch. It runs for sixty minutes on a full charge (chargeable through a USB charger), meaning you can enjoy an hour of play with your partner. RockHer was created especially with scissoring in mind, meaning that you can be sure it will bring you everything you're looking for if you're a lover of frontage (whether you're new at trying it or are a veteran in the world of scissoring).

The powerful motor of RockHer can be felt resonating throughout the toy, making it the perfect option for folx in the queer community. When positioned between vulvas (particularly with the bulbous end inserted into one person's vagina), achieving a hands-free orgasm is just around the corner. This works in different sex positions, including missionary, cowgirl, or reverse cowgirl... You name it!

Some tips for new RockHer users:

Play with angles to find the perfect spot that can bring both you and your partner to orgasm.
Flip your RockHer around to stimulate your partner's vulva with the G-spot bulb and yours with the vibrating clitoral ring.
Bring it into the shower to amp up your pleasure during joint showers.
Use the remote control to flip through the toy's ten vibrational settings for added fun.
Take a deep breath and relax! Scissoring can be a lot of fun and is nothing to be afraid of, even if you're a novice.

Want to save on your purchase of a RockHer (or on any purchase made at Wet For Her, for that matter)? Use the code BETWEENOURTHIGHS at checkout!

We hope you found something to up your game in bed with your partner in this article. With so many options to choose from, experimenting with different toys to achieve multiple effects isn’t out of the question. Embrace and enjoy both your and your partner’s sexuality. It’s well worth your while.

If you’re looking to pleasure a vulva or penis, check out our accompanying posts, “Essential Sex Toys For Folks With Vaginas” and “Essential Sex Toys For Folks With Penises”!

Which of these products are you going to order for yourself? Do you have any additional recommendations on sex toys for folks with penises? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below.

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The Best Sex Toys for Couples