*Tenuto. Photo courtesy of MysteryVibe.*

Personally, we love to pull out our sex toys and take time out of our day for some self-care and self-pleasure (whether alone or with our partners). The great thing about sex toys is that they can be enjoyed either alone or with someone else — or a group of people if you’re attending a play party! After all, masturbation is good for you… just remember to clean your sex toys properly at the end of each use.

Today’s post focuses on the best toys that we love for folks with penises and prostates. Get ready, because your life is about to change with each one of these products.

All products listed below are in alphabetical order by company name.

Bodywand's Bodywand Masturbator Attachment

Retails at $44.99 USD (about $60 CAD)

*Bodywand Masturbator Attachment. Photo courtesy of Bodywand.*

Do you dream of a world where your toy will never run out of charge or batteries? Where you can enjoy toe-curling orgasms forever, if you wished? Because the Bodywand Massager plugs directly into the outlet, you can use it for an unlimited amount of time, so long as there is electricity available.

The toy is exceptionally lightweight, and far sleeker and more comfortable to handle than other wands on the market. The textured handle makes the Bodywand incredibly easy to hold and position, while a dial control can change the power behind the head... the same head where various attachments can easily and securely screw into.

This means you can minutely adjust the sensations instead of other generic two- or three-speed options. However, this isn't to say that it can't give you incredibly intense vibrations if you want them... because oh boy, can it ever. We recommend starting at the lowest and gradually increasing the vibrational power. Simply attach the Bodywand Masturbator Attachment and go!

This clear, stroker is super durable and easy to clean after you've used it. Insert your penis into the sleeve and leave it while the vibrations do all the work, stroke it up and down the shaft by moving the Bodywand itself, or enjoy a combination of both by taking small pauses in between. Either way, you're in for an incredible orgasm, one that will leave you wanting to return to this toy time and time again.

Clone-A-Willy’s Clone-A-Willy Kit and Clone-A-Pussy Kit

Retails at $49.95 USD (about $65 CAD) and $34.95 USD (about $45 CAD)

*The Clone-A-Pussy Kit. Photo courtesy of Clone-A-Willy.*

Clone-A-Willy's Clone-A-Willy and Clone-A-Pussy silicone clone kits are the best way to 'have sex' with your partner (or yourself) when they aren't physically there with you. You can quite literally immortalize your favourite person's genitals in silicone, after they have completed the moulding process for you. Your partner simply has to place their penis or vulva into the moulding container once it has been filled with the mixed algae-based moulding powder, wait the designated time, then fill the empty mould with coloured, 100% platinum-cure, body-safe silicone. For the penis clones, a vibrator can be added at the same time as the silicone mixture).

Clone-A-Willy is fully functional — complete with a vibrator! — but the Clone-A-Pussy is just a replica of the vulva and outer portion of a vagina. However, the Clone-A-Pussy Plus+ Silicone Casting Kit works as a pocket pussy (AKA a fleshlight), as it comes with a case and pleasure sleeve to create a fully fuckable sex toy.

All of the silicone moulds are available in a large selection of colours, from varying skin tones, to glow-in-the-dark, to some fun and vibrant shades. Whatever you're aiming for, they've got you covered.

If you're worried about the moulding process, or have any questions or concerns about how it'll go down once you receive the product, Clone-A-Willy has a handful of comprehensive step-by-step guides. They're complete with video demonstrations using fruits and veggies to explain the process to you!

You can save 20% on your purchase in the Clone-A-Willy Shop when you use the code BETWEENOURTHIGHS at checkout!

Club Men’s Nova Prostate Plug

Retails at about $25 USD ($29.99 CAD)

*Nova Prostate Plug. Photo courtesy of Love Shop.*

Did you know that prostate orgasms — achieved by stimulating the prostate gland through the anus — can bring on full-body, eruptive, and long-lasting orgasms?

Curious to experience it for yourself? You can have one today with Club Men’s Nova Prostate Plug, either playing solo or with your partner.

A part of Club Men's Anal Series, the Nova Prostate Plug is the perfect length for reaching the prostate for earth-shattering stimulation. The toy is made from medical-grade silicone and features a safety ring at the end of it for easy removal. The enlarged head and bendable body work in combination to bring pleasure to each unique user; that is, you can adjust the angle and shape of your Nova Prostate Plug so that it works to bring your body to orgasm. Plus, the rippled shaft of the plug works to stimulate the anus as the toy is inserted while moving around internally and removed from the body. The bottom line? There is constant arousal in the works.

Like all silicone-based toys, we recommend washing your Nova Prostate Plug by hand with an antimicrobial soap and warm water or with a quality sex toy cleaner. You'll likely want to use a lubricant on the toy as well, for more comfortable insertion; because it's made of silicone, only a water-based lubricant can be used. Alternatives (such as silicone-based lubricants) can cause the toy's silicone to erode and damage, meaning you won't be able to enjoy your Nova Prostate Plug for as long as you could otherwise... you don't want that!

Want to save 15% on your Club Men Nova Prostate Plug (or on any purchase made at LoveShop.ca, for that matter)? Use the code BETWEENOURTHIGHS at checkout!

Cute Little Fuckers’ Starsi

Retails at $79 USD (about $105 CAD)

Starsi. Photo courtesy of Cute Little Fuckers.

Reaching planet earth from their starsun, a planet covered in fire, Starsi (whose pronouns are the toy's name) loves napping and hiding things. What kind of things does Starsi like to hide, you may ask? Your genitalia!

Starsi is ideal for all genders and is revered by transfemmes with genital dysphoria, as they can enjoy Starsi's ability to cover genitals with the toy's gently curved and vulva-like feel. This allows for the remapping of new genitalia, creating a sense of euphoria in one's mind.

In addition to this incredible feature that is perfect for transfemme folx, Starsi is incredible at stimulating every inch of your body — from genitals to chests and everything in between, you are quite literally covered by this soft, waterproof, and USB-rechargeable body-safe silicone toy. Despite Starsi having a USB-rechargeable body, the vibrator is incredibly strong (and can be set to any of the five speeds available, depending on what you enjoy the most). What's more, the deep rumbling is super quiet, so you can pleasure yourself with Starsi without having to worry about anyone else hearing.

To learn more about Starsi, their Cute Little Fuckers friends, and the story behind the company's inception, listen to our podcast interview with creator and founder Step (or read the interview’s written transcript).

You can also donate a toy to a low-income transgender, POC, or disabled person who couldn't otherwise afford a toy.

You can save $5 off your order from Cute Little Fuckers when you use the code BETWEENOURTHIGHS at checkout!

Handy’s Handy

Retails at $249 USD (about $320 CAD)

Created by Norwegian engineers and designers, Handy is truly the future of penis masturbation. This device offers the most incredible orgasms, all from an easy-to-use product made of quality materials and electronic components. When the company says it's a "one size fits all" toy, they mean it in every way, both literally and figuratively. The Handy can fit all girth and length sizes of a penis, but thanks to its unique TrueGrip system, it allows the user to decide if they want anywhere from a firm to soft grip. Alternating through any combination of speeds (up to an impressive ten strokes per second) and stroking lengths [anywhere from 0 millimetres (0 inches) to 110 millimetres (4.3 inches)], you'll be able to completely adjust your Handy to fit the criteria needed to bring you your best version of pleasure.

We love Handy's connectivity to the internet, which makes it possible for your partner to control the actions of the device, but also for video synchronization to some of the most incredibly immersive adult videos in the world. In the future, Handy even plans on creating an open API for external developers to create content that you can synch up with your toy!

When you're done with your current session (yes, even if you know you'll be reaching for it again before long — we know that's how we feel about it!), cleaning the sleeve is super quick and easy, with just water between uses. You can also use a sex toy cleaner if you'd like, but it's not necessary.

Hot Octopuss’ Pulse Solo Lux

Retails at $149 USD (about $195 CAD)

Pulse Solo Lux. Photo courtesy of Hot Octopuss.

With scientific innovation features that have never been seen in the sex toy world, Pulse Solo Lux can bring the user to a powerful orgasm, completely hands-free. A remote control is connected to a strap that can be worn around the wrist, allowing you to switch through the six-intensity vibration settings without ever having to touch the device enveloping your shaft. Want to take things a step further? Try the LUX dedicated Turbo button, driving you from flaccid to erect by getting your pulse racing. That is, regardless of whether you're flaccid or erect, Pulse Solo Lux will bring you to the next level of arousal.

Like some of Hot Octopuss' other sex toys, Pulse Solo Lux features PulsePlate™ technology, which provides intense vibrations and pulsations that can make you cum without ever having to manually stroke the penis. However, if you want to incorporate stroking, adding a bit of lube to the shaft and moving your Pulse Solo Lux up and down against the skin can create the perfect combination of sensations for masturbation.

Bring your toy with you in the shower, bath, or hot tub, allowing the rumbling sensations to carry through in all wet places — Pulse Solo Lux is waterproof! When you're finished, juice it up again with its state-of-the-art magnetic charging and get ready for next time. Once you experience this the first time, you're going to want to grab this at the drop of a hat. With that in mind, it's important to have it always charged and ready to go!

LuzArte’s La Bomb

Retails at $70 USD (about $90 CAD)

Made of 100% medical-grade silicone, La Bomb is LuzArte's first anal arts toy... and it's the bomb (yes, pun intended). These are the medium size of their newest three-piece anal plug line and measure two inches (just over five centimetres) in diameter. While not necessarily the best toy for someone who is experimenting with butt plugs for the first time, it is definitely great for folx with some experience.

Naturally, a water-based lubricant should be used when playing with your La Bomb (water-based to maintain the silicone's quality, lube in general, because the anus does not naturally lubricate, and you likely want to avoid tearing). The girthiness of this toy creates a 'filled' sensation within the anal cavity; the almost teardrop-like shape helps for easier insertion and removal, while the weight of the toy keeps it firmly in place while inserted.

Like any butt plug, La Bomb is great for self-insertion during solo play — it's simple to remove, thanks to a wide and ergonomic flared base — as well as for using with a partner. If you opt for the latter, it's a great way to prepare the anus for a penis or even a larger-sized butt plug. Whatever you decide!

We recommend that you pair your new La Bomb (or any toy you purchase from LuzArte) with their organic cleaner. It's ideal for almost all personal items, including being used as an air freshener, washing your fruits and veggies, cleaning your hands without water, and even removing makeup from your face.

MasterMate's Power Pussy Stroker

Retails at about $70 USD ($89.99 CAD)

*Power Pussy Stroker. Photo courtesy of Love Shop.*

"Peter Peter Pussy Beater, had a wife and loved to please her. Anytime he could not poke her, he used his MasterMate Power Pussy Stroker!" so begins Love Shop's description of this fabulous pocket pussy. A brilliant little rhyme, right?

This toy has an insertable length of up to 20.32 centimetres (eight inches) that completely envelops the shaft in realistic, vagina-like sensations (made of TPE-based SuppleSkin) that will bring the user to a thrilling orgasm. With some soap and warm water and a few sprays of your favourite sex toy cleaner, your Power Pussy Stroker's components (the sleeve and plastic casing) are clean and ready to go for another use when you are.

We recommend using it manually to control both depth and speed of penetration with your hands guiding the Power Pussy Stroker over the length of your penis or attaching the toy's base onto a smooth and flat surface for hands-free play. This includes in the shower or bathtub — the toy is completely waterproof! When exploring the latter, you can position and angle it however you please to bury yourself inside of it in exciting new ways. We suggest suctioning it to a wall while you're on your knees, to the side of the shower while standing, and on the floor to work those quads while lowering yourself onto the Power Pussy Stroker.

If you feel that you need a little extra lubrication, your Power Pussy Stroker is compatible with both water-based and silicone-based lubricants. The choice is ultimately up to you!

Want to save 15% on your MasterMate Power Pussy Stroker (or on any purchase made at LoveShop.ca, for that matter)? Use the code BETWEENOURTHIGHS at checkout!

MysteryVibe’s Tenuto

Retails at $169.99 USD ($226 CAD)

Tenuto is a wearable vibrator for anyone with a penis, with the customizable ring slipping over the shaft (easily bent to conform to the user’s body). Because it's capable of stretching and adapting around the penis and perineum, it doesn't matter your size — it'll fit perfectly to your contours. What's more, Tenuto can be used both for solo play or incorporating into time spent with a sexual partner. Regardless of how you choose to use it, though, the toy is designed to increase performance by maintaining an erection's blood flow.

Alone, it's the perfect addition to stroking yourself, lying down or sitting on the edge of your bed. With a sexual partner, the smart vibrator can be positioned in such a way that it can stimulate another person's penis and testicles or clitoris, labia, and vulva when pressed up against it. This way, not only is the wearer experiencing a longer, harder, and more intense sexual experience, but the person they are having sex with can enjoy the added pleasure, too.

To take things up a notch, your partner can control Tenuto using the accompanying app, easily alternating between any of the sixteen vibration settings from six powerful motors to give an earth-shattering orgasm. If you're hoping to get creative, you can even create your own custom patterns with the app!

Tenuto is water-resistant, so you can bring it in the shower or use excessive amounts of lubricant with it. Plus, with USB charging, you'll have hours of uninterrupted play time.

Odiles’s Butt Plug Dilator

Retails at $140 USD (about $185 CAD)

*Butt Plug Dilator. Photo courtesy of Odile.*

Unlike other anal dilators (like three-step anal training kits or an inflatable device), Odile’s butt plug dilator allows you to have complete control over the process millimetre by millimetre. That is, you start at just 1 inch (2.55 centimetres) and can gradually increase the girth to 1.5 inches (3.81 centimetres) by turning the black key at the end of the device up to ten times to reach maximum thickness. This adjustment of the girth is both comfortable and safe and can be done either independently or with your partner. We love how it makes anal sex so much less daunting and so much more comfortable!

Because it’s not inflatable, you don’t run the risk of anything popping inside of your body — which can be incredibly dangerous — nor tearing the anus due to what is a typical 25% increase in girth size when using the three-step trainers. And who doesn’t want body-shaking orgasms in the safest way possible?

The broad base stops you from over inserting beyond the 3.6-inch (9.14-centimetre) shaft, yet the smooth and straight surface allows for moving the toy in and out of the butt in a penetrative motion. Plus, thanks to it not requiring any batteries, it’s completely discreet and will make no noise when using it while other people may be in a room nearby.

Once finished, the Odile’s medical-grade silicone makes it incredibly easy to clean after use, and completely safe for the user.

For anyone reading this who has a butt of their own: this toy is worth the investment.

For more information, check their website.

Tenga’s iroha temari

Retails at $79.99 USD (about $105 CAD)

*iroha temari, Mizu design. Photo courtesy of Tenga.*

Did you know that the sensations causing arousal from a toy go beyond just vibrations, texture, or shape? The iroha temari proves that the volume of vibration sounds is a significant factor in bringing a user to climax, including how much vibration is sent to your hand as you hold your toy. The less distracting vibrations against the hand, the better!

That's where iroha temari comes in. The toy was crafted to house a powerful motor with four vibrations of increasing speed and two pulsation patterns, all within a case that has been specifically designed to reduce the vibrations felt in the palm. The result? You can fully immerse yourself in the art of pleasure, held between your fingertips.

The vibrations of iroha temari are ideal for targeting ultra-sensitive areas of the penis, such as the frenulum (the highly erogenous piece of tissue on the underside the penis, just below the head, that connects to the foreskin) and perineum (the area between the anus and the scrotum, also known as the 'taint'). On a full charge (completed with a USB plugged into the base of the case), your toy will run for an hour and a half. That's a lot of pleasure time, if you ask us!

Like all of the pieces in Tenga's iroha line, the iroha temari is a lovely piece of art all on its own! There's no need to hide it away after use — leave it on your side table like a focal point of abstract art. Thanks to an anti-dust coating, you don't have to worry about anything sticking to the body-safe silicone between uses. However, if that remains a concern, the case has a lid that fits perfectly overtop.

The Rabbit Company's Rabbit Love Ring

Retails at $168 USD (about $90 CAD)

*Rabbit Love Ring. Photo courtesy of The Rabbit Company.*

Made of smooth, body-safe silicone and engineered for pleasure with its ergonomic shape, the Rabbit Love Ring is a rechargeable toy that can be enjoyed either alone or with a vagina-owning partner (more on that in a bit). Thanks to a three-speed motor and four different vibration patterns, alternated between with one-touch control, the wearer of this cock ring can experience all of the intense external sensations this toy has to offer.

We love how quiet the Rabbit Love Ring is, making it perfect to use for anyone with roommates (who they don't want to listening in on their alone time). Plus, it's exceptionally comfortable for prolonged wear; you can take as long of a break as you desire between climaxing without feeling uncomfortable. Don't stress about removing the Rabbit Love Ring, only to have to put it on once again in a short while.

Its pliable rabbit ears stroke the clitoris while being worn, offering different sensations during sex and upping the pleasure factor infinitely whether you're in dry sheets or sprawled out in a full bathtub. And if you fancy yourself a traveller and want to bring your Rabbit Love Ring along for some fun, whether solo or with your partner? Worry not! The USB charger makes it incredibly easy to plug in anywhere globally with a power adapter (also making it an eco-friendly alternative to batteries).

Everyone will find pleasure with this toy by The Rabbit Company... you won't want to let this toy pass you by.

We-Vibe’s Vector

Retails at $139 USD ($149 CAD)

Are you ready for the Vector's gentle pressure and rumbling vibrations, designed to stimulate both the prostate and perineum? This prostate massager is made of body-safe silicone without using any latex, meaning that it's comfortable, water-proof design is ideal to be used by anyone at any time. Without having to worry about costly, disposable batteries, Vector can last up to two hours on a single charge. This means you can enjoy its two-motors and ten-modes of rumbly vibrations for either a lengthy masturbation session or incorporated into sexual play with a partner.

And don't worry — Vector will let you know when it's running low on battery, so you aren't taken aback.

With a narrow girth and smooth exterior, Vector is very simple to insert, thus making it the perfect toy for everyone, regardless of their level of experience with anal toys (or any variety of sex toy at all, for that matter).

That said, you and your partner get to choose who takes the reins in bed, as the four-button remote it comes with makes for quick changes to vibrational intensities in the spur of the moment for the most intense anal penetration. However, if you have a smartphone, we highly recommend downloading We-Vibe's We‑Connect™App from their website for easier control over Vector. Plus, you can create more personalized vibrations for yourself or your partner.

ZALO’s KING Vibrating Thruster

Retails at $199 USD (about $260 CAD)

*KING Vibrating Thruster. Image courtesy of ZALO.*

Ready to treat your body like royalty? It's time that you got yourself the KING Vibrating Thruster by ZALO.

Inspired by the golden mask of the ancient Egyptian King, this stunning thrusting vibrator's waterproof design symbolizes conquest, power, and irresistible magic — which is precisely the physical experience that you will have. While everything about this toy is beautiful, from the colour to the fine historically-inspired details, it's the function of it that will truly blow your mind.

KING Vibrating Thruster is ideal for anal insertion, either on one of its 'regular' vibrating modes or by boosting your experience with its thrusting modes. The toy's PowerThrust technology possesses a range of five to forty thrusts per second, including up to fifteen millimetres of toe-curling thrusting distance. Thanks to independently-controlled thrust-type and vibration motors, you can enjoy the power of both separately OR in tandem.

We recommend using lots of lube and playing with the different penetration angles you can enjoy. With every toy on the market having a slightly different shape, it's worth finding the ideal angles and depths that work for your unique body. In the specific case of your KING Vibrating Thruster, the angle and depth might differ, depending on if you're using the vibrating mode only, or vibration AND trusting.

Like all of the toys we share with you, KING Vibrating Thruster is made of premium body-safe silicone, with this design featuring ZALO's exclusive Softek™ surface coating. Fully charge it in just four hours for two to three hours of continuous pleasure of either solo or partner play.

Whether you’re looking to capitalize on the health benefits of sex or just want to have the best orgasm of your life, these sex toys are the perfect outlet for anyone with a penis. It does'n’t matter if they are enjoyed alone or with (a) partner(s), any of the products mentioned above are incredibly likely to not only bring you to a climax, but also help you feel your sexiest and most confident.

If you’re looking to pleasure a vulva, check out our accompanying post, “Essential Sex Toys For Folks With Vaginas”!

Which of these products are you going to order for yourself? Do you have any additional recommendations on sex toys for folks with penises? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below.

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