40 Sexting Examples to Get You and Your Partner in the Mood
Here at Between Our Thighs, we love sexting. The thrill of composing the perfect message, of egging on teasing a partner. Even the excitement that comes with exploring boundaries and uncovering new territory. There’s so much more to it than just sending a plain ol’ sext and hoping for the best.
But you knew that, didn’t you?
If you’re looking for some amazing sexting examples, you’ve come to the right place. From starting off the conversation to sexting ideas to keep the eroticism going, we’ve got it all.
Please Note: All sexting exchanges should be done so completely consensually, whether it’s just text messages or if you are sending nudes.
‘The Instigators’
1. What are you up to right now?
2. Hey, I was just in bed and was thinking about you.
3. Do you have time to chat a bit? 😉
4. You’ve been on my mind all day...
5. I had a dream about you last night. Want to know what happened?
6. I wish I was right beside you.
7. I bet you’re looking so fucking hot right now. 😍
8. I had some ideas of what we could do next time we see each other/when you come home...
9. Wishing you were in bed with me right about now.
10. Honestly, I can’t even believe that I get to fuck you.
11. I’m going to make you come so hard tonight, you won’t even know what to do with yourself afterward.
Taking things up a notch
12. I've been thinking about you naked all morning.
13. Just came out of the shower and, naturally, I thought about getting all wet with you.
14. What are your thoughts on bringing some toys into the bedroom with us? 😏
15. I'm sitting here touching myself just thinking about you. What else should I do?
16. I've been so naughty today... I think I need you to come over and spank me.
17. What are your thoughts on us pulling an all-nighter to fuck until sunrise? 👀
18. What do you think about when you're fantasizing about me?
19. Ever wonder what I think about when I'm fantasizing about you?
20. Do you remember the night we went to _____, and what you did to me when we came home?
Getting hot and heavy
21. I'm going to fuck you until you can't walk straight
22. I can't wait to use our gags on you later tonight...
23. Next time I see you, I'm going to spread your legs and suck/lick you until you scream.
24. Fuck, I can't wait to feel you deep inside of me/I can't wait to feel myself deep inside of you.
25. What do you think about exploring our sex styles one on one 😏
26. I can't stop thinking about when you did _____ to me.
27. I'm gonna explore every inch of your ass tonight.
28. I want to watch you masturbate for me.
29. The best place to have sex is in the kitchen with you bent over the counter. Don't you agree? 😉
Bonus: Testing the waters
30. You've been naughty lately. Do you think I should punish you?
31. I want to _____. How do you feel about that? 😉
32. All I can think about is doing _____ to you. Think we could explore that in-person?
33. How would you feel about us trying out golden showers or scat play? 💦
34. [Describe a sex scene you'd like to try in person. Do you like that?
35. Tonight, let's role-play _____. Then we can _____.
36. I've heard that weed and sex go well together. Wanna give it a try? 🚬
37. Does the thought of us _____ together turn you on as much as it turns me on?
38. The thought of us trying _____ together makes me so hot. Does it turn you on, too?
39. I’d love for you to explore every inch of my body with [insert partner’s body part here].
40. When I think about you during the day, I can’t help but imagine you doing _____ to me. Should we give it a try later today?
Do you feel you’re ready to send the perfectly crafted sext now?
We hope that with the sexting examples above, you’ll be well on your way to sexting like a champion, enticing your partner as much as you’re turning yourself on. After all, in our humble opinions, this is an amazing way to boost your libido and improve your sex life; you’ll truly benefit from these conversational starters.
All it takes is a little practice and self-confidence.
What are your go-to sexing ideas (and do you have any sexting examples you’d like to share)? Are you someone who likes sending dirty memes as a part of your sexting or do you prefer to keep it to plain text? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below.
