The Best Places to Have Sex: A Comprehensive Guide

The Best Places to Have Sex: A Comprehensive Guide

If you haven’t already guessed it, we love sex. Having sex indoors, having sex in public, having sex while embracing everyone’s different sexual styles. All of it! 

And while there are so many different ways to have sex, there are also countless places to have sex — and some are better than others! So, what are the best places for sex, whether having sex in public or in the comfort of your own home? 

Today, we’re sharing some of our favourite places to have sex. Not only do we love these spots, but we have a good feeling that you’ll enjoy them, too.

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In the shower 

Shower sex can be enjoyed at any time of day, but we particularly love it as part of our morning sex routine. Not only can helping one another wash be a sensual way to get in the mood, but having hot water run over your bodies will ensure that you stay clean before getting dressed and heading to your jobs.

On the kitchen counter

This can arguably be the best place to have sex. From chairs to counters, there are plenty of spots for either partner to sit on or balance against, making oral, masturbation, penetration — you name it! — easy for everyone involved. Plus, switching up locations to different spots around the home can be incredibly hot, in and of itself.

At your lover’s place

We find this to be one of the hottest places to have sex, mainly when your partner tends to come over to your place. Switching things up to have sex in a more unfamiliar place can help heighten arousal, boost your libido, and add another layer of excitement to what is already a thrilling act. 

In a hotel room

Folks have claimed hotels to be one of the best places for sex for a reason. In a way, this can be considered public sex (since it’s outside the comforts of your own home), yet it still has an element of privacy to it. Rolling around on a different bed, in a new space, and even on new pieces of furniture can make your pulse quicken.

best place to have sex

On a train

This form of public sex can be obvious or discreet. For the first, we’d recommend a private cabin with a locking door, to avoid unwanted interruptions. You can even go for oral sex in this scenario!

However, for those looking for something quick and a bit more public, you can venture to mutually masturbate each other while draping a coat or sweater over your laps. Just be sure to hide your O-face!

On the beach

While this can get a little sandy, it can also be a lot of sexy. Lay down a towel and go for it! If you’re feeling comfortable, feel free to move into the water to wash yourselves off after your session... or maybe, to continue it even further. On land or sea, this is one spot you’re sure to love.

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While camping

This is easily one of the best places for sex, particularly when it comes to mindful sex. Just outside your tent, you can enjoy the sounds of nature; crickets chirping, wind rustling through the trees, and perhaps even the soft footsteps of small creatures scurrying past.

If you’re not afraid of bugs and potentially curious wildlife, sex under the stars can be breath-taking.

Pitstop on a hike

When you stray a little bit off your hiking trail, there are even more adventures in the beauty of nature to be had. The best kind? Sex in the forest. We even love a bit of role-playing in situations like these, pretending to be stranded hikers needing to use our body heat to keep warm.

At a sex club

The epitome of public sex, having sex in a sex club can be a boost to your sex life not only because of the sheer thrill of it, but also because many clubs offer classes or one-off lessons on upping your sex game!

If you’re a fan of getting dirty, sex clubs offer everything you need to clean up after messy sex. You’re covered on all bases!


While some people get a thrill from public sex, others prefer to get their fill of excitement in the quiet of their own home. Of course, some folks love both, switching things up to keep their sex life fresh and exciting. Regardless of your personal preferences, we hope that you found your ‘new’ best place to have sex and that this unique adventure will strengthen your bond with your significant other, boost your self-confidence, and help you have a better relationship

In your opinion, what is the best place to have sex? Is having sex in public something you’d be up to (and if so, where)? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below.

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