10 Simple Ways to Have a Sexy Valentine’s Day
February 14th is creeping up, leaving many folks wondering how to make the most of what can be both a sexy and romantic day. Should I make it about love, or should I make it about sex? What about incorporating a bit of both?
In fact, Valentine’s Day is one of those holidays that doesn’t have to be focused on spending money on fancy date nights. Instead, there are countless creative ideas of sexy things to do that will not only spice up the bedroom, but can also work towards maintaining passion in a long-term relationship.
Curious about our favourite ideas for this day? Here are ten things to get you started.
1. Start the night off out on the town…
How about starting the evening with a unique date? Whether it sets the mood as sensual or is a fun venture before turning things sexy at home, it’s a sure way to enjoy one another’s company before returning home for the night and getting intimate.
2. …or plan a sexy at-home date night
Of course, going out isn’t always a favourable decision. Plan a night indoors by ordering in food, setting up mood lighting, and even teasing your significant other with sexy sexts (or even by sending a few nudes) beforehand. This is a great way to talk about sex with your partner openly and to find out what you both might be interested in exploring together on Valentine’s Day.
3. Offer an erotic massage
A slow and sensual massage, with you and your partner wearing lingerie or sexy clothing (or maybe nothing at all!), is an incredible way to set an erotic mood. This skin-on-skin contact builds intimacy without sex and can be a great precursor before deciding to jump into sex.
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4. Tease each other’s senses
Eliminating sight with a blindfold, running an ice cube along the skin, spanking with a paddle or whip — these are all ways to play with your partner’s senses and enhance sexual play. Perhaps you can consider getting the necessary items as one of your Valentine’s Day gifts!
5. Play a sex game
Did you know that there are plenty of fun sex games that will spice up the bedroom? Pick one with your partner that would work well for you, gather what you need, and set aside some time on Valentine’s evening to play together...
6. Experiment with food play
Food play is a deliciously irresistible way to connect with your significant other this Valentine’s Day. Whether painting their skin with chocolate before sucking it off, licking whipped cream from their body, or even sharing a sensual sweet treat like chocolate-covered strawberries, experimenting with food can be erotic fun.
7. Try a new sex position
While it sounds like something so simple, trying out new sex positions is such a fantastic way to spice up your sex life — and a great thing to try on this sexy day. Sure, there are plenty of health benefits to sex, but the pleasure-based aspects are what we love the most.
8. Act out a role-play from your fantasies
With so many role-playing ideas to choose from, it’s no wonder that many couples love it. If you’ve never experimented with role-playing before, discuss the fantasies both you and your partner would want to try beforehand, set the scene on Valentine’s Day (consider props and outfits you might need), and then dive in!
9. Do something outside of your routine
Whether it’s having morning sex when you usually roll through the sheets at night or getting risky by having sex in public, stepping out of the ordinary is one of the fun (and free) sexy things to do with your partner this Valentine’s Day.
10. Incorporate some sex toys
There are so many sex toys for couples that will take your intimacy game to the next level. Besides, masturbation is good for you! This is a tip that can be used by long-distance relationship couples too, with Wi-Fi-enabled sex toys like We-Vibe’s Nova 2 working wonders (especially in combination with a video call)!
With this list of creative ideas of sexy things to do this Valentine’s Day, you can find the perfect balance of sex and romance with your significant other. We love that these can all contribute to seducing your long-term partner while still keeping the mood sensual yet exciting. Whether you’re staying in for the night or planning a little adventure out of the comforts of your home, you’re bound to have some fun this Valentine’s Day.
How do you spice up the bedroom on Valentine’s Day? What are some other creative ideas, not related to sex, that makes for a romantic holiday? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below.
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