9 Tips for Seducing Your Long-Term Partner
If you want to be romantic in a relationship, you must consider going beyond what you are used to. This means seducing and romancing your partner in ways that make both of you feel sexually confident, whether by finding sex tips online or from people you trust, or by testing the water on unique ideas that you and your partner have come up with.
From upping your foreplay game to having sex in new places, we’ve got nine ideas for you and your significant other to try out. These are sex tips that are sure to help in seducing your long-term partner.
Step out of your routine
With relationships often falling into a certain sense of predictability, they can sometimes begin to feel mundane. By stepping out of your routine, you can shake things up and make your time together seem like an adventure. Whether this is stepping out of your home to have sex in public or staying in bed to watch some of Hollywood’s hottest sex scenes (or porn — after all, there are positive impacts of pornography), you have a wide variety of options.
Take charge in bed…
No, this doesn’t have to necessarily take on a BDSM aspect to it (although, if that’s something you both are into, you should go for it). In fact, you can still be romantic in a relationship, even when taking charge of your partner. Tell them where to touch you, how to move against your body. By taking turns instructing one another, you’ll both be satisfied while simultaneously learning more about the ins and outs — no pun intended — of your bodies.
…or in the shower
The sense of control can move to other areas of the house, once you start feeling sexually confident. For example, switching up your routine by having morning sex in the shower is a great way to conserve time and your water bill by washing together. Having the water run over your bodies will ensure that you stay clean before getting dressed and heading off to your jobs.
Be a tease
Leave your sex toys out in the open for your partner to catch a glimpse of... and get ideas about. If you’re looking to make things more obvious, using the sex toys (or manually, with your hands) in front of them to masturbate is an in-your-face example of how looking at them turns you on.
Use your words
The best way to tell your partner what you want is to tell your partner what you want. Of all the sex tips we could give, openly communicating is the most important to keeping a relationship strong. Start by telling your significant other how you think you could spice up your sex life, talking dirty to them and telling them what they can do to you.
On that note, also consider talking to your partner about your fetishes!
Send a seducing text message
Do you feel sexually confident today? Start to sext like a pro, sending detailed messages to your partner (possibly even sending nudes along with them) and talking about your fantasies. It’s a great way to segue from text messages to real life, if these are things that both you and your significant other would be willing to try.
Get away for a weekend
Sometimes, all you need to do to seduce your long-term partner is to get away from it all. By finding somewhere new to visit, even if only for a couple of days, you can take this time to truly start romancing each other. Maybe it’s dinner and a night out. Perhaps, it’s trying something you’ve not ventured to before, like butt play and anal sex.
Don’t edge beyond foreplay
Instead of leaping right into sex (as tempting as it is), tease your partner by not going beyond foreplay. Achieve orgasms on bodies with penises through a handjob or blowjob, or reach climax on bodies with vaginas through cunnilingus. You can take it a step further by bringing your partner to the brink of orgasm and then stopping (also known as ‘edging’).
Pretend to be strangers
In a role-playing scene, you can relive your partner’s initial romancing by pretending not to know each other. Regardless of the storyline you adopt for the night, treat each other as if you have just met; flirt with one another, and woo the other person into bed.
Not only can these ‘new’ seduction tips help you to be romantic in a relationship, it’s also a great way to learn how to feel confident in yourself. Regardless of which (or how many) you decide to implement, it’s bound to make things more exciting between the sheets and keep the flame of your long-term relationship alive.
Do you find it difficult to be romantic in a relationship? What sex tips do you have for seducing your long-term partner? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below.
