Fetish Friday: Double Penetration
A fetish defines the object of someone’s sexual fantasies (a living being or an inanimate object), while kinks refer to the ‘non-conventional’ practices that a person takes part in or fantasizes about. When exploring either definition, both are often considered to diverge from mainstream social norms.
Thankfully, recent years have seen the world become more and more sex-positive. As a result, many fetishes and kinks are regarded as being ‘acceptable.’ Still, not every fetish (or fetishes) that a person has is understood by the public. This may be, in part, due to the diverse subcultures that often branch from a single fetish or kink; it can leave outsiders uncertain of what it entails.
Today, we’ll be speaking on double penetration (and the different orifices that can be penetrated) to help remove any misperceptions and uncertainties on the topic. We hope that it will give you a better idea of what it’s like to experience this kink, as well as what someone who takes part in it might be into.
What is double penetration?
Often abbreviated to “DP,” double penetration is a sexual act in which a woman’s vagina and anus are simultaneously penetrated. This can consist of two penis owners penetrating each orifice of a vulva owner with either a penis or sex toy, including dildos, vibrators, butt plugs, and other toys for anal play. Penetrators can also be vulva owners using strap-ons or hand-held sex toys to fill one or both holes.
Common misconceptions
Double penetration is, “traditionally” speaking (for lack of a better word), penetration through vaginal and anal sex. Fellatio (blowjobs) do not count as being doubly penetrated, but using sex toys or incorporating vaginal or anal fisting does fall under the umbrella! With that in mind, it doesn’t have to be two separate penetrating partners; a single partner can use a variety of objects to fill both orifices on their own!
How to talk about it with your partner
Ready to start talking to your partner about this kink? Whether you’re looking to bring a third person into your sex routine or are just curious about exploring different sex positions so that your partner can doubly penetrate you alone, it’s essential to be open and honest with what you’re looking for. After all, a sex partner cannot give full and enthusiastic consent to participate if they do not know what to expect and are taken by surprise.
Things to try
If you’re looking for ideas or to start testing the waters, you can watch double penetration porn to see what possibilities await you.
Once you’re ready to experiment, folks looking to DP between just two people, Sportsheets’ Dual Penetration Thigh Strap On or their Ménage à Trois Strap On are two great options to explore and can be enjoyed in multiple sex positions. When diving into DP with multiple partners, consider the myriad of sex toys out there, as well as fisting and using other (safe) insertable objects!
Are there risks to consider?
Like anything, there are some things to consider. When inserting a penis or shared sex toys into the body with a non-fluid-bonded partner, sexually transmitted infections (STIs) can be spread. As well, whenever a penis is inserted into a vagina, keep in mind that pregnancy might be a risk factor, so consider your birth control options.
While DP may not seem daunting to some folks, it may feel more so to others. Whether fisting, using a toy, or inserting a penis, have a safeword in place for all people involved.
How can I learn more?
The world is your oyster! As we mentioned, there are countless options to watch double penetration porn on many ethically produced pornography sites. Not to mention reading erotica, such as this story and this story, found on our website! As well, plenty of the best sex blogs you can find on the internet offer tips and tricks on how to engage in DP with one or more partners.
After reading this, we hope that you now have a deeper understanding of what double penetration is. The next time the topic comes up in conversation, we are confident that you will feel encouraged to speak about it, whether it be to learn more about the kink from someone who practices it first-hand or to educate someone who may be closed off to the idea. With your help, we feel that we have done our job to help make the world a more sexually inclusive place!
Do you enjoy DP and have you watched penetration porn before? Which sex positions do you find are best for achieving the most orgasmic double penetration experience? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below.
