The Best Toys for Anal Play
PleX with flex. Photo courtesy of Hot Octopuss.
Butt play and anal sex can be incredible, with anal stimulation often resulting in an earth-shattering orgasm. For folks with vaginas, this can be achieved through the A-spot (through the vaginal wall, this spot is also known as the anterior fornix, located between the cervix and the bladder), where folks with penises can be brought to orgasm by arousing their P-spot (prostate). But how does one go about all of this?
In short, anal sex is the act of inserting a penis or sex toy (for example, a strap-on) into the anus. Anal play, on the other hand, involves any stimulation of the area. This may include fingering, licking, or any foreplay that does not necessarily involve penetration — and can be enjoyed alone. Today, we’re focusing primarily on penetrative anal sex and how you can enhance pleasure in the bedroom, thanks to this roundup of our must-have anal sex toys for solo or partnered use. You won’t want to miss any of these!
Paragon Glass Butt Plug. Photo courtesy of Love Shop.
Feature Product: Love Shop’s Paragon Glass Butt Plug
Retails at about $24 USD ($29.99 CAD)
Available in six different colours, Love Shop's stunning Paragon Glass Butt Plug is a true work of art. Each plug is a gorgeously hand-blown, unique, and original work of art. However, as you likely already guessed, the thrill of this product goes beyond the visual appeal of the design; it's an incredibly sensual sex toy, as well.
The glass is safe to experiment with temperature play, meaning you can leave it in the refrigerator to cool down or place it in warm water to heat up before insertion. (Remember to test the temperature of the toy before inserting it into your body; it's better to be safe than sorry.)
The Paragon Glass Butt Plug's seamless and non-porous exterior makes it compatible with any lubricant! We highly recommend that you pair the Paragon Glass Butt Plug with a high-quality anal lube, like Secret Lovers Anal Lubricant. Opting for an anal sex-specific lube is a wise decision, as the anus is not self-lubricating. A little extra help from an anal lube can make a world of difference for enjoying the most pleasurable toy insertion possible!
Fun fact: You can remove the insert from inside the box cover, and the packaging itself doubles as discreet storage!
You can save 15% off your entire order from Love Shop when you use the code BETWEENOURTHIGHS at checkout!
Anal Training Plugs. Photo courtesy of Bathmate.
Bathmate’s Anal Training Plugs
Retails at $49.99 USD (about $60 CAD)
If you're interested in giving anal a shot, easing yourself into the girth of a penis or sex toy takes preparation. Beginning right from the get-go with an overly large partner or toy can result in significant damage, so planning is crucial. To ease yourself into it, Bathmate's Anal Training Plug kit, which includes a body-safe set of three silicone Training Plugs, will take you from an Anal Novice to a full-fledged pro!
Three solid plugs with diameters of 1, 1.25, and 1.5 inches ( centimetres) are included in this package; though this size difference may sound insignificant, it is much bigger than you may be envisioning in terms of anal stretching. Each of these plugs sports a finger ring base and a thin, fully flexible shaft. The Anal Training Kit has been thoughtfully created for complete nerve stimulation and true pleasure, making them ideal for a quick play session or long-term wear.
If you're looking to up your anal plug game, we recommend inserting Bathmate's VIBE Bullet Vibrator into the finger ring for an even more intense experience. With this added touch, you'll be unlocking powerful vibrations from 10 unique vibe patterns! In fact, you can save money on the plugs and the VIBE Bullet with their VIBE Training Plugs Kit!
Disposable Intimate Wash + Bulb. Photo courtesy of Future Method.
Future Method’s Disposable Intimate Wash + Bulb
Retails at $25 USD (about $30 CAD)
The revolutionary Disposable Intimate Wash is the first-of-its-kind (with a doctor-developed formula!) designed to gently cleanse the bum before anal play. Of course, it'll never hurt the area, making it the ideal way to clean up and get ready for whatever excitement lies ahead of you.
The Intimate Wash's formula consists of a pH-balanced solution, meaning that it is fully compatible with your body's natural chemistry, never upsetting that delicate balance. Meanwhile, TEGO® Solve gently moisturizes the rectum while cleaning it and licorice root extract naturally soothes the area. After all, whether it's light or rough play, a little bit of calming to the delicate skin can work wonders.
Each pouch of Intimate Wash is 3.4 fluid ounces (about 100 millilitres) and is enough for two uses — this is super simple, thanks to the package's one-way flow design. Plus, each pouch is TSA-compliant, making it easy to bring in your carry-on for on-the-go fun. We recommend applying it with the accompanying rectal douche bulb, made of medical-grade Sarolit™. This reusable bulb allows users to apply it with the white polyethylene nozzle (the perfect colour for cleanliness checks) and is small enough to prevent over-douching.
When you place your order, be assured that it will arrive in a non-labelled blue box. Discreet and useful; it's the perfect combination.
PleX with flex. Photo courtesy of Hot Octopuss.
Hot Octopuss’ PleX with flex
Retails at $99.95 USD (about $125 CAD)
Like all of their top products that bring users the most intense orgasmic experience, PleX with flex takes advantage of their Treble & Bass Technology™; which means intense high-frequency Treble waves and deep rumbly Bass vibrations, which can be enjoyed separately or at the same time. The toy is made of Silicone ABS, making it completely safe to use anywhere on or inside of your body while you let the sensual floods wash over you.
While there are lots of great solid and stiff butt plugs on the market, we loved the unique design that Hot Octopuss took with theirs — a non-conventional and bendable approach, meaning that you can easily maneuver it alone or with a partner in total comfort. Now, your toy doesn't have to hold you back in any way during your sexual adventures. The only question is, "Are you ready for 90-degree-movement in sheer bliss?"
Oh, and if you needed any more reason to buy this product ASAP, PleX with flex comes with a versatile remote that enables you to switch between settings seamlessly, without ever needing to touch the toy. That means you can switch things up without having to move a single inch from the perfect position you may have just found yourself in.
iroha’s Minamo
Retails at $120 USD (about $150 CAD)
Minamo. Photo courtesy of iroha.
If you're looking for a sign to experiment with different-shaped anal toys, here it is! We love using the Minamo for anal play, as its slightly thicker girth and waved surface elicits sensations that'll get your heartbeat racing. Minamo is covered in a unique and body-safe soft-touch silicone that feels silky smooth. Plus, its anti-dust coating allows you to leave it out on your desk or side table in your bedroom with complete peace of mind. Not to mention this also helps to clean it up quickly.
For folks that enjoy bringing their toys into immersively wet situations — like the shower or a hot tub, for example — the Minamo can be used, submerged up to 20 inches (about 50 centimetres). Users or their partners can cycle through the different vibrational modes, ranging from low to high, as well as a pulsating speed. The shaft is flexible, bending with ease (which makes it quite easy to maneuver yourself if you're flying solo).
When you're ready to charge Minamo up, simply place it in its case, which doubles as a charging stand. The moment the case closes, it will automatically begin to charge so that it's ready to go whenever you are.
RIN+. Photo courtesy of iroha.
iroha’s RIN+
Retails at $69.99 USD (about $90 CAD)
Available in pink and green, iroha's RIN+ is an incredible toy that doubles as a vibrator and an anal toy. Its elongated and ergonomic shape makes it easy to hold and operate whether using it on yourself or a partner. A single button on the base of your RIN+ turns the toy on and off, as well as cycles through its various vibration modes, consisting of four strengths and two rhythm patterns.
We found that the rounded tip is incredible to use around the rim of the rectum, circling it around as a part of foreplay and for erotic build-up before inserting the RIN+, a finger, or a penis. The wavy textures on both the ball's tip and along the side of the shaft create subtle yet noticeable sensations. Plus, RIN+’s anti-dust coating allows you to leave it out on your desk or side table in your bedroom with complete peace of mind, and makes for easy cleaning.
When you're finished, plug it into the USB charger and power it up for your next use. There's nothing worse than a dead battery when you go to grab your favourite toy!
(Please note: Because the RIN+ does not have a flared bottom, be careful that it doesn't get lost in your bottom! Always exercise caution when utilizing toys not exclusively intended for anal sex within the rectum.)
Zen. Photo courtesy of iroha.
iroha’s Zen
Retails at $35 USD (about $45 CAD)
Choose from three different colours — Yuzucha, Matcha, and Hanacha — and dive into a world of pure pleasure. Made of soft-touch body-safe silicone, Zen is here to take your anal play to the next level. Because the material is so gentle, you can be assured it's safe for the delicate skin of you or your partner's bottom. The squishy, flared tip can easily be inserted into the anus, small enough to be held with ease, but large enough to feel a body-melting orgasm. The curved, textured lines running vertically along the shaft create an intense surge of pleasure for the penetrated person.
For folks that enjoy bringing their toys into immersively wet situations — like the shower or a hot tub, for example — Zen can be used, submerged up to 20 inches (about 50 centimetres). Users or their partners can cycle through three different vibrational modes, including three vibration strengths and one pulse pattern. You can enjoy about four hours of playtime while running at maximum power with just two AAA batteries.
When using on folks with vaginas, thoroughly clean and sanitize your Zen after anal play before inserting it into the vagina. This helps avoid preventable infections from arising!
Naughty North’s Anal Adventures Pinpoint Silicone Vibrating Prostate Massager
Retails at about $40 USD ($49.99 CAD)
Anal Adventures Pinpoint Silicone Vibrating Prostate Massager. Photo courtesy of Naughty North.
Take anal sex to the next level with the Anal Adventures Pinpoint Silicone Vibrating Prostate Massager. It's all about sensations with this prostate vibrator, which is two toys in one! As you insert and thrust, the twists and turns on the shaft provide powerfully orgasmic sensations, while the curved tip delivers pinpoint and strong vibrations right against the prostate. The flared base of the Pinpoint Silicone Vibrating Prostate Massager allows for safe and confident insertion while simultaneously thrusting.
These intense vibrations will help you reach powerful prostate orgasms. They're delivered by a powerful 10-speed bullet with easy one-touch button control. You can take the Pinpoint Silicone Vibrating Prostate Massager out and use it for foreplay, on you or your partner's nipples, or on the clitoris... anything your imagination allows. For your convenience, the toy is USB rechargeable, and the entire toy is waterproof, as it's made of body-safe silicone. With this smooth silicone coating, you can enjoy the heightened sensations from it warming to the touch with play.
We recommend inserting the toy while your partner is bent over the bed or a chair to manipulate the angling easily, or while your partner's hips are propped up by pillows while lying down.
Anal Adventures Silicone Anal Ball With Vibrating Cock Ring. Photo courtesy of Naughty North.
Naughty North’s Anal Adventures Silicone Anal Ball With Vibrating Cock Ring
Retails at about $30 USD (about $36.99 CAD)
For everyone interested in discovering new anal sensations on their own or with a companion, we highly recommend the Anal Adventures Silicone Anal Ball With Vibrating Cock Ring. With a high-powered single-speed bullet, this anal ball and vibrating cock ring provide a combination of sensations with longer-lasting enjoyment. Vibrations are masterfully delivered through the toy's UltraSilk Silicone, which has a silky smooth feel to it (and, of course, is entirely body-safe).
To achieve these intensely orgasmic sensations, just put the cock ring over your penis and testicles, then slide the anal ball into position. The bullet vibrator is incredibly simple to use, requiring a single touch to begin operating. Before sliding on the ring and inserting the anal ball, be sure to use a good quality water-based lubricant; it'll help you to enjoy a new world of erotic sensations!
This Silicone Anal Ball With Vibrating Cock Ring is perfect for entering a partner from behind while wearing or while their legs are up in the air with hips positioned upward towards you. Because it's completely waterproof, you can also enjoy using this toy in particularly wet situations, even those that require you to be submerged underwater!
The Anal Adventures Silicone Anal Ball With Vibrating Cock Ring is a toy you'll return to again and again.
The Butt Plug Dilator. Photo courtesy of Odile.
Odile’s Butt Plug Dilator
Retails at $99.99 USD (about $125 CAD)
Unlike other anal dilators (like three-step anal training kits or an inflatable device), Odile’s butt plug dilator allows you to have complete control over the process millimetre by millimetre. That is, you start at just 1 inch (2.55 centimetres) and can gradually increase the girth to 1.5 inches (3.81 centimetres) by turning the black key at the end of the device up to ten times to reach maximum thickness. This adjustment of the girth is both comfortable and safe and can be done either independently or with your partner. We love how it makes anal sex so much less daunting and so much more comfortable!
Because it’s not inflatable, you don’t run the risk of anything popping inside of your body — which can be incredibly dangerous — nor tearing the anus due to what is a typical 25% increase in girth size when using the three-step trainers. And who doesn’t want body-shaking orgasms in the safest way possible?
The broad base stops you from over inserting beyond the 3.6-inch (9.14-centimetre) shaft, yet the smooth and straight surface allows for moving the toy in and out of the butt in a penetrative motion. Plus, thanks to it not requiring any batteries, it’s completely discreet and will make no noise when using it while other people may be in a room nearby.
Once finished, the Odile’s medical-grade silicone makes it incredibly easy to clean after use, and completely safe for the user.
For anyone reading this who has a butt of their own: this toy is worth the investment.
Club Vibe 3.OH HERO. Photo courtesy of OhMiBod.
OhMiBod's Club Vibe 3.OH HERO
Retails at $129 USD (about $165 CAD)
Fans of OhMiBod's traditional Club Vibe were begging for an anal version of the toy, so they granted everyone's wish by designing the long-anticipated Club Vibe 3.OH HERO! Consider this a lightship taking you to Planet Orgasm, as you'll light up the room with various LEDs that shine to the vibrational patterns.
With a discreet wearable vibrating plug meant to satisfy, you will indulge in the Art of the Tease, either in the privacy of your own home or while on the go. Your only constraint is your imagination. The Club Vibe 3.OH HERO plug is quiet and light and comes with three pleasure modes and a rechargeable, wireless remote control with a built-in microphone. This allows you to boldly explore new levels of pleasure both in solo or partnered play!
With three different modes available, you can explore each unique way to bring pleasure. In Tease Mode, you can give your sex partner a taste of what's to come (remember that the longer the tap, the better the tease). Groove Mode allows users to pick from five pre-set pulsations that will help you find your groove. For added erotic fun, ask your partner to discover it for you. In Club Vibe 3.OH HERO’s final mode, Club Mode, you'll vibe along to everything from the music on the dance floor to your partner's voice.
(A fun bonus tip: Club Vibe 3.OH HERO is also a great G-spot vibe, so it can easily be used as a unisex vibrator.)
OhMiBod's Lovelife Explore
Retails at $29 USD (about $38 CAD)
Lovelife Explore. Photo courtesy of OhMiBod.
The human body is meant to be explored, either by yourself or your sexual partners (or both!). That's why we adore the Lovelife Explore. Essentially, butt plugs like Explore are designed to do whatever you want them to. Some people use them as a tool for anal sex warmup, while others use them as a BDSM accessory. Some folks use them to get more familiar with the pleasurable sensations of the anus (to apply to this knowledge when using other toys, fingers, or a penis).
Thanks to its silky silicone exterior and flexibility, it's the perfect butt plug for both beginners and seasoned veterans to the world of anal play. This body-safe toy is not too large, making it perfect for easing into play or discovering new sensations for folks just starting to test their boundaries. Plus, Explore's safety ring makes it easy to retrieve from the anus by yourself from a variety of positions, as well as for your partner to remove on your behalf. You wouldn't want your toy to get lost inside of you!
The box comes with the Explore, as well as a satin privacy pouch for you to store your toy discreetly while it isn't in use.
Lumen. Photo courtesy of OhMiBod.
OhMiBod's Lumen
Retails at $119 USD (about $150 CAD)
OhMiBod's Lumen is far from your average anal plug. This totally unique experience can be powered by Kiiroo's FeelConnect App for long-distance partnered pleasure or by the free OhMiBod Remote™ App for remote solo play. The Lumen itself is made from body-safe silicone consisting of Velvet Wave™ comfort technology. The ridged insertable makes for heightened sensations in complete comfort, while the LED light at its base gives real-time feedback to your partner.
One of the many things we found so incredible about Lumen is that it can also be synced up with other toys, creating twin patterns vibrating between both products for partners to experience simultaneously. It can also be programmed to synchronize with your music playlists or the sound of your partner's voice. Talk about really setting an erotic mood for everyone involved! As mentioned above, this can be over a video call while oceans apart or while in the same bedroom, thanks to its app connectivity.
P.S. Don't be afraid to explore the use of your Lumen in different areas of the house, from in your bed to in the shower. Thanks to the toy's waterproof design, it can be enjoyed pretty much anywhere you can think of.
Anal Explorer Kit. Photo courtesy of Sportsheets.
Sportsheets’ Anal Explorer Kit
Retails at $89.99 USD (about $115 CAD)
Need a kit that's gentle on a beginner's bottom, yet knows you'll be ready for more serious fun soon? You'll be well-prepared with Sportsheets' Anal Explorer Starp-On Kit. You and your favourite adventurer will have all that you could possibly need to satisfy your most tantalizing needs while digging deep into your most sensual desires. The alluring sight of your lover in the stylish, secure, and totally adjustable harness will leave you speechless.
Start your sexual adventures together as simply as possible with the small body-safe silicone dildo before you work your way up to the larger member once your anus has been thoroughly pleasured. We promise that you'll be ready to explore to your limits, thanks to the intense erotic pleasure that the Anal Explorer Kit will bring you. Because the supplied O-Rings allow for the insertion of even more dildos in a variety of sizes and shapes (whatever you have at home, as well as new toys you may come across in the future), you'll be ready to explore every one of your desires.
Just remember to begin slowly with your Anal Explorer Kit and experiment with different positions, toy-safe lubes, and dildo shapes and sizes. Always communicate during sex and have fun!
You can save 20% off your entire order from Sportsheets when you use the code BETWEENOURTHIGHS at checkout!
Sportsheets’ New Comer's Strap On Set - Special Edition
Retails at $67.99 USD (about $85 CAD)
New Comer's Strap On Set - Special Edition. Photo courtesy of Sportsheets.
The New Comer's Strap On Set - Special Edition’s velvet-textured harness comes with adjustable nylon straps that offer a perfect fit up to 72 inches (about 183 centimetres) hips. Its padded front and back panels protect the most sensitive parts of your body during rigorous play, so you're never pulled out of the heat of the moment. Each New Comer's Strap On Set includes a slim, 5.25-inch (roughly 13-inch) silicone dildo that's perfect for exploring your partner's butt; it secures to the harness via an interchangeable 1.25-inch (just over 3 centimetres) rubber O-Ring.
If you so choose, your favourite bullet vibe can be stored in a built-in pocket on the front panel (but note that this isn't included). In fact, you can fit any toy with a flared base by using our various O-Rings, so don't be afraid to look through our collection of body-safe dildos.
When you're finished with playtime — and we know deciding when it's time to stop isn't always easy when you're in the throws of pleasure — clean-up is a breeze. Just throw the New Comer's Strap On Set into the washing machine, and it'll quickly be ready for the next time you want to use it. Don't forget to use your favourite (toy-safe) water-based personal lubricant and toy cleaner to keep your toy in the best condition possible.
You can save 20% off your entire order from Sportsheets when you use the code BETWEENOURTHIGHS at checkout!
Vector. Image courtesy of We-Vibe.
We-Vibe’s Vector
Retails at $139 USD ($149 CAD)
Are you ready for the Vector's gentle pressure and rumbling vibrations, designed to stimulate both the prostate and perineum? This prostate massager is made of body-safe silicone without using any latex, meaning that its comfortable, water-proof design is ideal to be used by anyone at any time. Without having to worry about costly, disposable batteries, Vector can last up to two hours on a single charge. This means you can enjoy its two motors and ten modes of rumbly vibrations for either a lengthy masturbation session or incorporated into sexual play with a partner.
And don't worry — Vector will let you know when it's running low on battery, so you aren't taken aback.
With a narrow girth and smooth exterior, Vector is very simple to insert, thus making it the perfect toy for everyone, regardless of their level of experience with anal toys (or any variety of sex toy at all, for that matter).
That said, you and your partner get to choose who takes the reins in bed, as the four-button remote it comes with makes for quick changes to vibrational intensities in the spur of the moment for the most intense anal penetration. However, if you have a smartphone, we highly recommend downloading We-Vibe's We‑Connect™App from their website for easier control over Vector. Plus, you can create more personalized vibrations for yourself or your partner.
We hope you love each and every one of these products as much as we do.
Just remember to always properly clean and care for your sex toys, in order to make them last and to continue to be body-safe. Because these toys will be inserted into the anus, be sure to completely wash and sanitize prior to inserting into other orifices, such as the vagina or mouth.
If you’re looking to pleasure a vulva or penis, check out our accompanying posts, “Essential Sex Toys For Folks With Vaginas” and “Essential Sex Toys For Folks With Penises”! When venturing to experiment with your partner, check out our post, “The Best Sex Toys for Couples.”
Which of these products will you order for yourself? Do you have any additional recommendations on toys for anal sex? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below.
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