Fetish Friday: Cannibalism
*Please note that we do not, under any circumstances, agree with the murder or consumption of any human being.*
‘Kink’ refers to all socially deemed ‘unorthodox’ sexual practices that a person takes part in or is into, while ‘fetish’ describes the focus of their sexual fantasies (whether those are living beings or inanimate objects). When one considers either definition, both are often regarded as off-limits, as far as prescribed societal norms go.
Thankfully, the world is becoming increasingly sex-positive, resulting in many fetishes and kinks being ‘normalized.’ That said, not every fetish (or fetishes) a person has is understood, possibly due, partly, to varying subcultures that can branch from a single fetish or kink. As a result, outsiders can be left feeling uncertain of what they entail.
Today, we’ll be delving into the topic of cannibalism, to help understand the subject. We hope that it will give you a better idea of what it’s like to have this kink or fetish and what someone who takes part in it or fantasizes about it is into.
What is a cannibalism?
Also referred to as ‘vorarephilia,’ a cannibalism fetish refers to a sexual desire to be consumed by someone or to consume another person. Typically, the fantasy is to be swallowed whole, but some folx enjoy the thought of being cut up into smaller pieces and chewed, as well as imagining the process of being digested (or digesting someone). Please note that even when consensually biting and ingesting another human, the practice is illegal.
Common misconceptions
First things first: not every person with a cannibalism fetish genuinely wants to murder someone to consume them. In fact, the sexual stimulation often is rooted in the conversation and thoughts surrounding eating humans, not in carrying the desires out. Thus, there typically is not a threat of one person harming another — or seeking out someone to eat them — for the sake of their arousal. That said, many enjoy this taboo fetish because it seems to be the greatest form of intimacy: to have your loved one literally inside of you.
How to talk about it with your partner
When it comes to talking to your partner about your kinks and fetishes, taboo topics like this are best explained in full detail. Be clear about what aspects of being a cannibal (or, rather, the fantasy of being a cannibal) arouse you and how your partner can enjoy the role-play. You may discover that they have questions — do your best to answer them as in-depth as possible and ensure that you get their full and enthusiastic consent before engaging in any of these role-plays.
Things to try
Folks exploring the fantasy of cannibalism may opt to nibble on their partner sensually without breaking skin, suck on their hands or feet until either of you want to stop, or verbally explain their deepest thoughts and desires of a cannibalistic scenario. While not engaging in the literal eating of a body, the sexual elements are still present.
Never, under absolutely any circumstance, should anyone involved actually kill or consume a partner’s flesh.
Are there risks to consider?
So long as the fantasy remains an imagined scenario being acted out or spoken about through role-play, there is no inherent danger to a cannibalism fetish. Anyone who maliciously grooms their partners or who forces someone to engage in their fantasy against their will is in the wrong. Likewise, going ‘off course’ and engaging in activities not discussed and agreed upon in advance can be dangerous to the submissive in these BDSM scenarios.
How can I learn more?
It’s important to understand that a cannibalism fetish (vorarephilia) is typically not the desire to actually harm someone or consume human flesh. Many kink websites are dedicated to exploring both common and less-spoken-of kinks and fetishes, including this one. By hearing the fetish described by folx who experience it first-hand, it becomes clearer what it means and, as a result, becomes less ‘frightening’ to those who may still feel some uncertainty towards it.
We hope you now fully understand what cannibalism is and what it means to be a cannibal (including arousal by the taboo of eating humans). This includes what is involved in the fetish and why the situation, simulated or real-life, may arouse some folks.
Should the topic come up in the future, we anticipate that you will feel more open to speaking about it from a place of knowledge. Whether it’s feeling open to further understand the fetish from someone who engages in it first-hand (and understanding if it is a non-threatening fetish versus a life-threatening kink) or educating someone who may be closed off to the idea, we feel that we have done our job to help make the world a more sexually inclusive place.
Does the thought of eating humans turn you on sexually? Are there other taboo kinks or fetishes, aside from cannibalism, that are arousing to engage in? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below.
