Finding God Between Our Thighs Through Sex Magick
It’s probably one of the most taboo titles I could have written. Sex and spirituality are some of the most shushed topics, right up there with politics and money. And yet, it still blows my mind that generation after generation has been taught to keep sex and spirituality as separate practices—as if our own damn soul doesn’t live inside our skin.
If you’re reading this, you likely know the exact moment I’m about to talk about—that moment in an orgasm that’s unlike anything else you feel in this world. It’s a space where your breath is heard, your body surrenders, and time stops for just a moment so you can truly feel. It’s raw, electric, and in that ecstasy, you know you’re touching something far greater than yourself. You meet divinity.
The best sexual experiences of your life, I almost bet, were paired with “holy fucks” and “oh, my Gods”... and though we’ve been conditioned to think of orgasm as a guilty pleasure, what if pleasure was actually a way to experience God—not far outside of ourselves, but deeply within us?
After guiding over 1,000 women through spiritual work (you can find my website here), deepening their orgasms, manifesting through their pleasure, and reawakening their inner Sex Witch, I can proudly say that women are hearing the call to fuck the taboo and stop listening to the inner good girl. They’re opening up to a whole new life of purpose, passion, and trust in Self—women who are connecting to Source and opening portals to everything they’ve ever dreamed of. Instead of allowing pleasure to be weaponized against themselves, they’ve recognized the immense power in their pleasure and are using it to make the world a better place.
Here’s the deal: the moment you choose to deepen your pleasure by finding yourself, understanding your body, loving on her, and allowing every piece of her to feel beautiful, you’ve already stepped away from the societal system trying to keep you playing small. And the second you bring sacred ritual into the experience—asking your version of God and Source to see you, hear you, and connect with you—you’re opening yourself up to a life filled with purpose, passion, intention, and faith. This is sexual liberation that guides you to realize (and manifest) your greatest desires in the most aligned way. That is the life of the Sex Witch.
It’s not about meeting God; it’s about remembering that you are God. Orgasm is a mirror that shows you who you really are: limitless, sacred, and whole. This is feminine spirituality. It’s rooted in the body and in the earth. It’s cyclical and sensual.
Pleasure becomes a sacred practice and a way of worshiping yourself and the divine that flows through you. When you allow yourself to feel deeply and surrender to the waves of sensation, you’re stepping into the most ancient, feminine form of prayer. This prayer isn’t only heard, it is manifested.
This is sex magick: the ancient art of using your sexual energy and pleasure to manifest, heal, and connect with the divine. It’s about using your orgasm to harness the most potent creative force that exists in this world and directing it with intention—not in some 2022 ‘O-Method’ way on TikTok, but in deep connection with your life force. The essence is simple: you combine the power of your desires, the sacredness of your body, and the energy of your orgasms to align with what you want to call into your life. Abundance, love, healing, awakening—nothing is off the table, except things that aren’t aligned with a life that makes you feel joy.
When you’re ready, follow the steps below and feel into a life that looks much different than the one you’re living.
1. Set a Sacred Space
Create an environment that feels elevated—candles, incense, silk, flowers, or anything that moves your senses. Your bedroom should feel different, like this is an experience unlike any you’ve had before.
2. Move with Intention
What are you calling into your life? If you lived in a way that was pleasure-filled and purpose-driven, if you woke up each morning in joy, what are you missing right now? Move deeply and feel this in your heart—your best intentions are the ones that come from this place.
3. Awaken Your Body
Move slowly and begin with self-touch, dance, or deep breathwork to awaken your sexual energy. Feel every sensation fully—without rushing, without judgment.
4. Focus Your Energy
As you become more in tune and aroused, hold the intention you are calling in at your third eye. Feel the energy of your desire moving through every part of your body, becoming bigger and brighter, taking up space.
5. Climax
At the peak of your orgasm, visualize your intention bursting out into the universe, as if your climax is the prayer being delivered.
6. Surrender
Release attachment to the outcome and trust that the energy you’ve directed is already working on your behalf.
Note: This practice works beautifully solo or with a partner. If you’re engaging with a partner, I highly encourage you to share your intention with them, so they can bring positive energy and potentially hold the same focus with you.
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Many women are turning to practices like sex magick, tantra, womb healing, and feminine embodiment to reclaim their sexual power, reconnect with their inner magick, and deepen their connection to the divine and themselves. These powerful rituals are opening pathways to a profound sense of self and awakening untapped potential.
